The Cross-Dresser in All of Us

Occasionally you might run into a man dressed up as a woman walking down the street, or see a man in a dress, but this is certainly not a normal sight. However, there is no denying that men and women adopt the others genders characteristics to get ahead in certain situations.

In the business world, women who demonstrate assertiveness can sometimes be labeled as a bitch. However, a man who displays similar behavior is called a good businessman. One might question why a woman would attempt to mimic a man’s behavior knowing this. The answer to this question lies in how a woman is treated in the work world without mocking a man’s behavior.

I have had limited experience in the work world but my internship does give me a little bit of insight. Starting at the end of my spring semester sophomore year I was lucky enough to land an internship with a nationally respected company. Going in on the first day I was nervous and intimidated. I figured that working hard and being myself would hopefully be enough to get through the workdays. I smiled a lot, and was helpful to my co-workers.

Looking back I realize that my relationship with my co-workers was not ideal. Yes they enjoyed my company and knew I was a hard worker, but I’m not sure if they had complete faith in my abilities. I was often called “sweetie” and other endearing terms. At the time this didn’t bother me, I actually appreciated it because it made me feel more welcome in the office. I realize now that if I would have been more assertive I might not have been the “little sister” of the office and would be thought of as more of an equal.