As we see in Charlotte Temple’s tale, even those coming from caring parents concerned with their child’s well being, are still in danger of falling victim to betrayal. It almost seems like no one is safe. The question then becomes what can a parent possibly do to protect their children when simply caring about them is obviously not enough.
When considering this question I began to think of the way and myself my parents raised me. The more I think about it the more I realize that my parents never flat out said “no” to me. This wasn’t because they were laid back and this certainly wasn’t because I was an angel growing up. My parents were on a level of parenting others may never reach.
My parents raised me in way to know the right thing to do without having to ask. They never had to prevent me from running away with a rake because I have been taught to not be attracted to these types of men. I would never try to leave the house in an outfit that maybe be considered less than tasteful because my parents taught me to have a more wholesome style.
Now, looking back on all this I feel almost manipulated! How dare they raise me to be a levelheaded woman!
Thinking back to your question on how contemporary parents can save their sons and daughters from a “treacherous heart” I would have to they should do exactly what my parents did. By teaching their sons and daughters morals a parent can relax and know that when faced with tough decisions, their children will know the right one to make.
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I enjoyed reading your post, because I can relate to it. My parents raised me similarly. Growing up in a private Christian school, I think that I was probably a little more sheltered than the average young person (meaning that I was exposed to fewer "worldly" influences), but my parents weren't over-protective. They allowed my brother and I plenty of freedom but simultaneously taught us good morals and set a positive example. So like you, I never had any desire to associate with "rakes" or dress provocatively, and I had the opportunity to make these choices (unlike Charlotte). Good post!
I like how you related your own experience with your parents to this topic. I think it is good that your parents taught you morals and let you make your own choices. My parents raises me in a very similar way. However, I know of other parents who did the same but they had strong willed, rebellious children who didn't take to the parenting style. I agree that is sometimes seems like there is nothing for a parent to do but their best, and hope the child will respond well.
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